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Analingus
Oral stimulation of the anus. See also rimming and tossing salad

ATM (Ass-to-Mouth)
The practice, most widely used in porn, of fucking someone in the ass, then putting your cock in their mouth.

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Barebacking
Pentetrative sex (oral, anal, vaginal) without a condom.

Bastinado
A form of torture involving the beating or whipping of the soles of the bare feet. Click for more info

BBW
Big, Beautiful Woman

BDSM
An abbrevation standing for Bondage and Discipline (BD), Bondage & Domination (BD), Dominance and Submission (DS), Sadism and Masochism (SM).

Bear
Term for a big, beefy gay man with a lot of body hair.

Boi
1. in the lesbian community, a young transgendered/androgynous/masculine person who is biologically female and presents themself in a boyish way; also “boidyke”

2. in the gay community, a young gay man;

3. in the BDSM community, someone who presents themselves in a young, boyish way and is usually a bottom/submissive;

Bondage
Sexual slavery, particularly dealing with the practice of restraining one's partner to an object (bed, floor, table, ceiling). The practice usually involves rope, leather, chains, and other equipment specially designed for the purpose.

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Crossdressing
The act of dressing in the clothing and acoutrements of the opposite gender.

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Dominant
The person in BDSM who dominates or controls the submissive partner. A dominant can be either a full-time Mistress or Master, or simply a top (the person doing the tying up or whipping, etc. within the context of a “scene”)

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Feeder
A person who gets off on filling their partner up with water, food,
etc., or forcing their partner to gain weight.

Fetish
A sexual fixation or obsession with a usually non-sexual object. EX. Feet, socks, horses, monkeys, pain, bondage

Figging
The act of inserting peeled ginger in one's anus for sexual stimulation. See Figging.com for a complete explanation.

Filching
Sucking the semen (and whatever else is present) out of the ass into which it has just been ejaculated.

Fisting
The act of inserting the whole hand into an anus or vagina. Care should be taken with this act. Click here for all your fisting needs.


Forced Feminization
The act of making a man dress or act like a woman, usually involving varying degrees of humiliation.

Frottage
The act of rubbing against the body of another person for sexual pleasure, usually while clothed.

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Greek
Coded term for anal sex.

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Masochism
The deriving of sexual gratification, or the tendency to derive sexual gratification, from being physically or emotionally abused. humiliated or mistreated by one’s partner(s).

Masochist
A person who obtains sexual gratification from being physically or emotionally abused, humiliated or mistreated by others.

MILF
acronym for Mom I'd Like to Fuck

McDom

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Nutella Sex
Termed coined on Craigslist Kink/Fetish/BDSM Forum. Nutella Sex is fun, kinky "vanilla" sex. For a complete definition, in context, please see the original post.

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PNP (Party&Play)
The use of speed (also cocaine and extacy) while having sex.

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Red Wings
What one is said to have earned after performing oral sex on a woman during her period.

Rimming
The act of licking another's asshole. More specific than the general terms Analingus and Tossing Salad.

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Sadism
The derivation of sexual pleasure from causing others’ pain.

Sadist
Someone who gets sexual or psychological pleasure from inflicting pain on someone who enjoys it. Named after the Marquis de Sade.

Safeword

Scene
Term used to describe

Shrimping
sucking toes

Snowballing
The term for when a man cums into someone else's mouth, and the cum is then passed along to another person. Similar in theory to a "Shotgun" hit of marijuana. Technically, the term comes from passing cum from person to person in such a way that the amount of fluid increases (semen + spit + more spit, etc), but frequently it is used to refer to a man cumming into his partner's mouth, and his partner passing it back to him orally.

submission

Submissive
A person in BDSM who submits to a Dominant person. A submissive can be a slave, and/or the bottom (the person being tied up or whipped, etc.).


Squick

Squish
Term used to indicate that a woman has just become aroused and wet.

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